what to do for Xmas?

While holding the baby down for her 1 year shots, we sang "Happy Birthday" to her. The doctor's assistant pointed out that there's now a chance she'll associate birthdays with pain. that means we won't have to worry about her getting too excited when she realizes her birthday is coming up. No cries of "gimme." Instead she'll just cower with fear. Now if only we can psychologically ruin Christmas, it will be a peaceful house in the winter time.